The response from NASA was one of the first times Clinton says she was reminded of her gender, which she writes plays a complicated role in her life and career and at some points, was a barrier to her success.
Clinton details, in another part of the book, how Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg warned her of the obstacles sexism would present in her campaign. She also writes about the extreme discomfort she felt when then-candidate Donald Trump seemed to follow her around the stage during a 2016 presidential debate at Washington University in St. Louis.
And yet at other points, she writes, being a woman has filled her life with joy and power. She cites attending the all-female Wellesley College, raising her daughter Chelsea and connecting with other women and girls as real highlights of her career, and her life thus far.
“Later in life,” Clinton writes, “I started to see myself differently when I took on roles that felt deeply and powerful womanly: wife, daughter to aging parents, girlfriend, and most of all, mother and grandmother.”
Still, it was complicated. These new roles “felt both like pulling on a new garment and shedding of my skin.”
And thankfully, the rules have changed at NASA: Of the 12 astronaut candidates selected this year from a pool of more than 18,000 people, five are women.
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